As probably the most common and incredibly complex contracts that a party can sign, why is there no requirement for acknowledgement of the laws, obligations, and responsibilities? Why is there no arbitration or mediation clause?
It would be enormously helpful to prospective marriage partners to be informed about the financial and other considerations of the contract they are entering that is commonly referred to as marriage. Many married couples don't understand that retirement plans and other assets and debts accumulated during the marriage are community property. Debt assumed during the marriage - even if in one party's name - is a community obligation. If one party works and the other does not, the earners sometimes think their earnings are theirs alone.
There is insufficient basic information about the contractual rights and obligations that should be understood and agreed to before marriage. This information would resolve many problems if and when the marriage fails. And a standard arbitration or mediation clause that is typically found in most all other contracts would, in the event of marital breakdown, be the first step in an out of court process that would save the courts, and most couples, a great deal of time, energy and money.
In California you can't buy a house, or a car, or even join a gym without a multi-page contract, with various provisions in bold print, and initialed by the buyer. But marriage? All one must do is state they are not married to anyone else, sign as needed and pay the fee.
Alas, common sense is not common. With governments at all levels bought and paid for, reform in this area is highly unlikely as there are many groups with religious and economic interests in keeping marriage fast and easy. For starters, consider the wedding business itself. Talking about marriage more as an important contract between informed and consenting adults, rather than as the most transformative moment in one's life and the Madison Avenue bridal magazines with emotion driven ads might lose some of their appeal.